Category: The basics
This will be a major learning experience for both of you. Not only must he/she adjust to a new lifestyle and a new way of thinking, feeling, and being; but she will have an enormous amount of learning to do. She must learn how to be a girl – a crash course, indeed. She must learn to properly clean house, cook, do laundry, sew, garden, and shop; all while learning to become a girl. I use the term “girl” repeatedly because she will never become a woman. She may become feminine, she may become a housewife, she may become your lesbian lover, but she will never become a woman.
All these things will take time to learn. Think of all that you learned as a pre-pubescent, then pubescent, then teen girl. It is your responsibility to make sure that she is properly trained, either by yourself, or with the support of other women. You must establish her duties explicitly. Make clear what is expected of her, then teach her how to do it.
Although you are the dominant, you must show patience, encouragement, and love during this period. Teach through demonstration. Coach her repeatedly until you are confident that she has learned. If she struggles to learn, you must be patient. This is not the time to punish. Never criticize her work, you can point out deficiencies but do not criticize the product. You may criticize her effort if you feel it is not up to par, but do not belittle her work if she is putting forth true effort.
During this period, I find it is best not to treat her as a submissive. If you find yourself becoming frustrated, intimidating, and harsh, you may find it helpful to think of her as your daughter. Treat her as a daughter that you love dearly. You want to see her learn and grow and blossom into a confident, beautiful and happy young lady. Have her call you “Mother”. Dress her accordingly; make her bedroom a beautiful girly room, refer to her as your daughter. Become the mother and daughter happily making cookies and brownies in the kitchen. Do it with love and patience.
I have always felt very strongly that becoming feminine must be done in stages. Having her move through the phases in a young girl’s life is a natural progression that increases the chances of an effective emasculation and transition to femininity. As you will see in other blogs, many women, including myself, will at various times revoke “Adult” permissions and place the Sub back into an earlier life stage. This can be done as punishment, or for training purposes. Early life stages may include teen years, pubescence, pre-teen years, kindergarten, or even infantile, complete with diapering, cribs, and baby bottles.
I had marvelous experiences using the mother/daughter scenario. I was able to teach and coach in a loving supportive manner, and she was able to explore her new persona without an excessive amount of pressure or fear. Your young girl might even begin to dream of growing up and becoming a beautiful Princess!
Encourage her, praise her, correct her without criticizing, reward her progress with treats and permissions. Do not lose sight of the goal, which is to teach her to do proper work. You want to be proud of her, more importantly, at this stage, you want her to be proud of her work, and proud to please you. Help her to become the confident, capable, devoted servant and lover that you deserve.
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