Feminization Begins
After the Female Led Relationship Agreement is reached, there will need to be a period of training, indoctrination, and adjustment. At the time of the agreement you must establish an official date and time for the transfer of power. This date does not need to coincide with your formal FLR ceremony. You must draw up a training plan and you will need to schedule her training activities. There are several approaches that you can take, depending on your resources.
In the most extreme case, you may take a “Boot Camp” approach. This is a total immersion in the new lifestyle. He will spend his last night as your husband and wake up the next morning as a “housewife cadet”. Training will begin before sunrise and continue until an exhausted bedtime. Unfortunately, most of us do not have the time and resources to make the boot camp approach feasible. Boot Camp is an effective transformation method on many levels, but it requires a total 24 hour per day commitment from both parties and almost unlimited resources. For this to be completely effective you may need outside support and an experienced trainer or multiple trainers. I hope the day will come when there are FLR support groups in every major community to support fledgling female led marriages.
On a more practical level, once you have reached an FLR agreement and agreed on a date for the power exchange to occur, you will begin an orderly, systematic training program. From this point forward it is your responsibility to train her in every aspect of her new life. Do not assume that she knows anything about what will be required of her. If you want her to clean house a certain way, you must teach her explicitly how you want it done. If you want her to serve tea a certain way, you must teach her exactly how you want that done. This will extend to every task and behavior that will be required of her, from kitchen to bedroom.
Ideally, the husband would become a full-time housewife, or work from home; however, if the husband works outside the home, it is imperative that he leave his masculinity at the door. Do not allow any male persona in the home. Require that all male clothing be removed at the door. Establish a two-foot radius at the front and back door beyond which only femininity is allowed. Keep feminine clothing and shoes in that area always for quick change.
If Amy is out of the house in male drab or androgyny, she returns in the front or back door, sets down whatever she is carrying and removes any male persona. She immediately puts on her heels and proceeds into the house in bra, panties, and heels. If the house is chilly due to weather, she will keep a robe, dress, or skirt and sweater stashed near the door. Of course, if she is on restricted permissions, she may have to enter the home naked except for her heels and tan lines!
Remember always that you are now responsible for her in every way. Her health and well-being are now your responsibility. You must take this responsibility seriously and never forget it. With great power comes great responsibility. Before you punish any transgression, ask yourself if you taught that task or behavior properly. Do not expect her to read your mind at this point in her transition. Her mind will be overwhelmed with new information and with learning new skills:
| Makeup | Cleaning |
| Hygiene | Cooking |
| Wardrobe | Pampering |
| Diet/Exercise | Laundry |
| Behavior | Servitude |
Regardless of the intensity and duration of training it is recommended that the following rules are enforced in any beginner feminization training program:
- Male clothing is prohibited. Pants, other than yoga pants, or exercise shorts, are forbidden. Yoga pants and exercise shorts may be worn only during the actual exercise period.
- Initial stages of skincare and grooming are implemented.
- Light make-up and perfume are to be worn at all times.
- Hair will be styled, or short wigs are to be worn in the home, except while bathing or sleeping.
- Earrings may be worn but are not required. Rings are optional, a light necklace should be worn at all times.
- Until you have trained her to wear heels properly, she will wear practical feminine shoes. I require Amy to wear heels whenever I am in the home.
- Panties or pantyhose are mandatory, along with a bra, bralette, or chemise of some type. Dresses or skirts may be worn.
- If skirts are worn, tops may be worn in any feminine style: tank tops, swing tops, halter tops, etc. These tops will need to be practical for housework.
- Nails will be properly manicured at all times. Toenails will always be polished.
These will be demanding days for both of you. You may be the dominant partner, but your days of pampered leisure are still well into your future.
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