Basic Training:
Before you exploit your newly acquired power you need to train your new wife in every aspect of her new life. This will require time, effort, patience, and no small amount of cost.
Cooking. Assess her cooking skills, or lack thereof. She may already have some rudimentary cooking skills, but you cannot assume anything. Begin with the foods that are regular menu items in your household. Prepare breakfast with her: coffee, tea, juice, bacon, sausages, eggs, biscuits. Can she prepare a simple lunch sandwich, soup, salad, or chips?
For now, keep the dinner menu confined to things that she will be familiar with. She should be able to properly cook a roast, grill a steak, make gravies, simple sauces, and pizzas, roast vegetables, and make a decent salad and dressing. After the initial stages of her transformation are complete, she will have time to learn more dishes, and explore new cooking skills but now is not the time to learn pastries, soufflés, and exotic dishes. In a short while, she should be able to prepare and serve a proper breakfast, tea, and dinner. Do not forget to teach her menu planning to organize her grocery shopping.
Laundry. You will want to work very closely with her in the laundry room. Mistakes here will ruin your clothes and her new clothes as well. You will want your clothes to be properly cleaned, pressed and folded or hung, the towels to be soft and fluffy, the sheets and pillowcases to be fresh and smooth. You will want to spend as much effort on the teaching of laundry skills as you did in teaching cooking skills. She will also be tasked with hand washing your lingerie and making sure that your dry cleaning is done and picked up in a timely manner. May Heaven help her if the Black Chiffon Backless dress that you want for the office party tonight is at the cleaners, rather than in the closet where it belongs.
Housework. This will be virgin territory for most men. Men have absolutely no comprehension of the amount of work required to maintain a tidy household. It is this area that causes most men to fail my FLR Certification Courses.
A male can run a vacuum. A male can do the dusting. Beyond that, everything else is questionable. Watch her vacuum, then teach her how to vacuum properly, watch her dust, then teach her how to dust properly. You will need to devote a large amount of time to teaching her how to properly clean a bathroom. Watching a man trying to properly clean a bathtub, shower, or toilet for the first time is quite humorous. She will be shocked to learn that the wet towels left on the floor after a shower do not pick themselves up and magically jump into the wash.
Kitchen cleaning and maintenance will be another area to which you will want to focus your attention. Aside from the dirty dishes, pots, and pans, the oven and stove require diligent attention, and if you do not give regular attention to the refrigerator, strange things begin to grow in there. The floors need to be swept and mopped and the walls and ceilings washed and wiped.
Teach these things well. Teach them patiently. Show her how to do something, then do it with her, then let her try. Have her do these tasks repeatedly until you are sure that she has mastered them. Never criticize or belittle her work during this stage. Correct her patiently, praise her successes, encourage her, make her proud of her work, and more importantly make her proud of pleasing you, because that is what this is really all about.
Opinions vary, and I am sure I will catch a lot of heat from other dominant wives, but I believe in patience, love, and support during this initial training period where cooking, cleaning, and laundry are concerned. I do not believe that anyone learns well under pressure, or in harsh conditions. There will be plenty of time to exploit your domination later. Remember that your goal here is not to abuse her, it is to teach her how to serve you properly. You want your food properly prepared, your home meticulously cleaned, and your laundry done correctly.
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