Why would any man submit to feminization? To better understand the erotic fantasies of the male mind we must turn to the world of internet pornography and adult fiction. Free and accessible pornography has made the world of fantasy, fetishes, and taboos a staple in homes around the world. For a deeper look into the sexual wanderings of both men and women, we examine the most popular types of pornography and fiction. Who is watching what?
It is not surprising that the most popular content on most pornography sites focuses on crossdressing, transgenderism, lesbian scenarios, female domination, and assorted taboos. Beta Males tend to be fascinated with all the above subjects. These are topics that not only titillate and arouse the Beta but resonate deep within his psyche. Beta Males have, by nature, deep seated insecurities surrounding their ability to please and fulfill the sexual needs of their wives and girlfriends.
As pornography becomes mainstream, we become more aware of our repressed thoughts and feelings. Since the dawn of time, rich men and poor men have sought the services of dominant women to relieve stress and fulfill sexual and emotional needs that are not being met at home. Society in general is more willing to embrace those thoughts long thought to be taboo. For example, the success of the movie “Fifty Shades of Grey,” despite a lackluster script and cast, demonstrated society’s fascination with taboo titillation.
Beta Males tend to be more sensitive and caring than Alpha Males. They will often experience and express emotions that are more in tune with a feminine mind than a male mind. Early in life, they may find feminine objects, such as clothing, shoes, makeup, and perfume to be more accessible than actual females. As a result, Beta Males tend to fetishize all things feminine early in life.
Both Alpha Males, and Beta Males tend to be fascinated with domination and lesbian pornography. Alpha Males tend to focus on videos in which the male is dominant, Beta Males are almost exclusively attracted to pornography and fiction in which the female is dominant. Both Alpha and Beta Males are drawn to transgender videos, Beta Males tend to be also strongly attracted to transgender and female-dominant fiction. In both video and fiction, female domination, transgenderism, and Beta Male humiliation tend to be interwoven elements. If we look deeply into these numbers, we find that many of the consumers of female dominant-transgender-humiliation pornography are married men, specifically married Beta Males.
Beta Males tend to be fascinated by women’s clothing. Not only are they fascinated by the clothing itself, but they are also fascinated by the experience of wearing it. Men have been wearing women’s clothing for thousands of years, across all strati of society, in every part of the world. Rich men, poor men, big men, small men. Unfortunately, crossdressing ranks somewhere between Pedophilia, and Serial Killing in societal stigmas.
Against the backdrop of such societal stigma, most men will repress or hide their desire to indulge in crossdressing. Unfortunately, crossdressing is not an indulgence but a deep-seated need to express an unfulfilled feminine longing. Those who do cross-dress, live a life of binging, purging, shame, and guilt. The suicide rate among those who cross-dress in secret is higher than almost any other demographic.
Men who cross-dress are not freaks, and they are not necessarily gay. They are simply expressing an insuppressible part of their natural being. We are all an indeterminate mixture of the testosterone/estrogen cocktail. We are all products of both our nature and our nurture. We all tend to crave that which has been denied to us. Boys learn early in life if they have been denied access to the Alpha Genetic Pool; society and women make that painfully clear. If you are not accepted as “one of the boys”, is it wrong to feel more comfortable as “one of the girls.” Maybe it is less about sexuality as it is a need to be wanted and included. Beta Males, by nature, have a sensitive, caring, more feminine nature. Is it criminal that they should want to express that nature outwardly?
So, we have all these men running around in the world, filled with insecurities, adoring all things feminine, and searching for affection, direction, and validation. Suppose a woman came into the life of such a man and said, “I know who and what you are. I love you for what you are. Trust me, do what I tell you, and I will help you become everything you want to be, and I will never leave you.”
“Forced Feminization” represents all Beta Male fetishes rolled into one. As a side note, a most popular category in the adult video/fiction world is the category of “Forced Feminization.” There is no such thing. Forced Feminization is a literal misnomer. You cannot force a man to become feminine, you can enable him, you can encourage him, you can make him (wink, wink!) dress up but you cannot “Force Feminize” anyone. We use the term “Forced Feminization” as a tongue-in-cheek reference to the rules established in our role-reversal FLR.
Many Beta Males will embrace femininity with encouragement and support. Little girls dream of becoming a princess, sometimes, little boys do too! The estrogen and femininity are already in there, as dominant women, it is up to us to cultivate that femininity. The seed is already planted, you must water it, feed it, nurture it, and protect it until it is ready to bear fruit.
In the FLR environment, feminization is the embodiment of submission. Rather than an act of cruelty, this enforced femininity and submission fulfills deep inner cravings of the submissive. Our former Beta Male, filled with insecurities, and repressed desires now finds fulfillment and security in the act of serving and obeying a loving Mistress. Gone is the fear of inadequacy, our submissive now knows exactly what is expected, and how to please and satisfy.
To agree to cross-dress in front of a wife is the ultimate proof of trust and submission. This is submission, not because he is opposed to dressing, but submission because he is now totally vulnerable before you, you now have a secret that could destroy him. This is a bond between the two of you, a bond based on trust, never betray that trust. You have asked him to give you something, and he did, at a tremendous cost, at the cost of his vulnerability. In return, you have given him a chance to do something he dared not even dream about, a chance to step out of his ugly drab life and become glamorous, without guilt, without shame, without responsibility. More importantly you have given him a place at your side.
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