In this world there are alpha men, and beta men. You know exactly what I am talking about. Alpha males are stereotypically dominant, dark, virile, masculine, and well-endowed. Surprisingly, some may also exhibit homosexual tendencies. Beta males, on the other hand, tend to be less virile, less dark, less hairy, and are not always well-endowed.
Women love their alpha boys, and are drawn to bad boys like moths to a flame. They are ever so happy to land a bad boy, then the trouble begins. Bad boys are bad boys. They are not domestic. Many a woman has come to me in despair, “But I thought he would change! I thought he wanted to settle down!” Settling down is not in the nature of bad boys.
Most women are hard wired for arousal with Alpha males. Dominant, dark, virile, hairy, well endowed. However, the world is full of Beta males. Less virile, less dark, less hairy, and not always well endowed. Alpha males are better breeders, Beta males tend to be better providers, more stable, responsive, and affectionate. The odds of establishing an FLR with an Alpha male are miniscule. Beta males are much more appropriately hard wired for conversion. They are, by nature, more domestic, and have a higher estrogen/testosterone ratio.
It is very possible for a woman to love a Beta male, but very often a power vacuum will exist. This power vacuum can be filled with female dominance. Beta males are quite often filled with insecurities which they mask by providing for, and caring for the wife. Those not generously endowed often become quite adept at satisfying their wives in other ways. Cunnilingus! Analingus! Discover the wonders!
In addition to Alpha males and Beta males there exists a subclass of males known as the Alpha/Beta male. You know the type, little boys playing with big boy toys. Big trucks, power tools, lots of flash but little or no sense of responsibility. These are “Frat Boys” for life. They may have decent jobs and paychecks but the wife manages the money, raises the kids, and cleans up Hubbie’s messes until she must reign him in and scold him like a mother. Women have been running households and calling the shots behind the scenes of these households throughout history. These men can be brought to heel.
Alpha males tend to be better breeders, Beta males tend to be better providers and caretakers, more responsible, more responsive, and more affectionate. Beta males also tend to be more sensitive. In a world of physical attraction and monetary success, they usually run second; therefore, Beta males tend to be filled with insecurities. “Am I man enough?” “Am I strong enough?” Am I large enough?
A wise woman will use these insecurities as tools in the FLR tool chest. You want to be the most important thing in his life, he wants to be the most important thing in your life. This is common ground. This is fertile ground. Prepare to plow!
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