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Although much of this discussion is benign, any discussion of “alternative” lifestyles and sexuality, may, at least tangentially, reference some graphic content, thus the mature content disclaimer. Any discussion of practices and procedures assumes that the parties involved will not in any way violate applicable laws, regulations, and statutes, and that all practices are done in a safe and consensual manner. At no time should any person be at risk of physical injury or harm.
The use of pronouns in role reversal and feminization is, by nature, problematic. Throughout the discussion we will attempt to refer to the male with male pronouns pre-feminization, and with female pronouns during the feminization process. We will try to use Americanized spellings throughout, primarily to accommodate search engine preferences. We apologize in advance for redundant, or repetitive content in these posts. Many of these posts will include excerpts from articles posted in various places at various times.
Female led relationships (FLR) involve a complex, demanding, specialized lifestyle. This blog is intended as a learning resource for those husbands, wives, and wives-to-be who may be considering the lifestyle, and possibly implementing an FLR in their home. We believe that the Female Led Relationship is simply a return to a natural order, one in which women are superior leaders, and deserved to be worshipped in marriages that are unencumbered by societal and religious norms. Despite the rigorous demands of the lifestyle, we believe it to be an extremely rewarding path, and a means for committed, loving couples to enrich their lives and bind their souls. This is a hate-free zone. If this idea does not interest you, or you find it offensive, there are millions of other websites for you to explore. Feel free to leave now.
There are many different types of FLR’s and different applications within those levels. The path that you choose will be the path that is right for your own needs and circumstances. We will explore many of the possibilities, but, by no means, all of them. Consider this a learning foundation upon which to build. We will define what FLR is at its core level and what it is not. Who would consider an FLR, and why? What are the dynamics (hint: sexual tension, love, adoration, female worship) that drive and sustain an FLR?
What are the rewards and benefits? What are the responsibilities? What is the cost? This blog will focus on a specific type of FLR, namely FLR with feminization, and without cuckolding. It is not fantasy. It is not slavery. It is not role-play. It is an alternative lifestyle based on the reversal of traditional male and female roles in the home.
In a female led relationship, the woman becomes the dominant person in the household and the man steps into the role traditionally held by the wife. Why feminization? Feminization of the male is the most effective means of breaking down the traditional dominant male role stereotypes as conceived by society. This is not done as fetish, fantasy, or humiliation but as a means to access and reprogram the male psyche. Very often, femdom, female led relationships, and feminization in the fantasy fiction world are combined with cuckolding. The focus of our discussion here is FLR in the context of a committed loving relationship between two people and only two people. Those who wish to incorporate cuckolding into their relationship may certainly explore that option.
Why would anyone even consider FLR as an alternative lifestyle. Imagine that you and your husband could be closer than ever before. Imagine a bond forged between the two of you tighter than anyone could possibly imagine. A life without secrets, a life without taboos, a life where all of your secret fantasies, wishes, and dreams can be shared rather than hidden. Too many people, especially women, hide away their fantasies because society considers them taboo. If taboo thoughts are so wrong, why are they present in all of us? The thoughts are natural. The taboos are societal. One of life’s greatest tragedies is living with unexpressed and unrealized desires. Suppose there was a common burning desire in each of you that remained suppressed and hidden throughout your life. What a terrible waste! Don’t hide your fantasies, share them. How do you go about achieving such a radical change in life? Read, learn, communicate. Trust yourself, trust each other. Live without fear.
“Everything you ever wanted lies on the other side of fear.” George Adair
Is the FLR lifestyle an excuse to escape from the harsh realities of marriage? We devote our lives to escaping from our thoughts and emotions. Shame, fear, guilt, humiliation? We run from silence, we run from ourselves, we run from intimacy. We distract ourselves with radios in the car, and televisions in the home, anything to keep us from thinking, feeling, and being. In order to become enlightened, we must confront our thoughts and feelings. How rarely are we alone with ourselves in silence? How many couples talk to each other, much less communicate? What if we could share our fears, dreams, and desires not only with ourselves but with each other. What if we could trust ourselves? What if we could trust each other? Suppose we could explore our desires with a truly open, non-judgmental mind?
Rather than escapism, FLR can give structure and purpose to life. We are at our best when we focus, when we have goals. Couples with common goals tend to have happier, healthier lives and stronger relationships.
“Love, honor, and obey.” How many generations of women spoke wedding vows that made them subservient to men? How many women throughout history became servants to their husbands and families? No voice, no power, no rights? Mistreated, abused, beaten, raped? Is it then so cruel to ask the husband to become the wife and become submissive? We will ask many questions; you must look inside yourselves for the answers.
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